Ann Jay

Relationship Coach

Based in Wellington.
Available for in-person and Zoom appointments.

"Become the best, most authentic version of yourself and clear the way for more fulfilling relationships."

Ann Jay is a qualified counsellor and certified relationship coach.

As a relationship coach, Ann will challenge you in gentle yet powerful ways to help you become the best, most authentic version of yourself. She offers insight, compassion and practical strategies to improve all your relationships. She will work closely with you to support and guide you to see what needs to be seen and attended to, to help clear the way for more fulfilling relationships.

Ann has studied interpersonal dynamics for 20 years and is passionate about helping people call in the greatest love of their life. She also specialises in helping people create more harmonious outcomes after a break-up.

What to expect

  • An introductory 45 minute in-person session at Ann’s Wellington office or by Zoom
  • This first consultation session is just a "getting to know each other," with the objective being that you feel comfortable with who you’ll be working with.

Your investment: $50.00+gst

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Cancellation and refund terms

  • 24-hours notice is required when canceling an Individual Coaching session.
  • Those who do not give 24 hours’ notice will not be eligible for a full refund.

If you’ve never been involved in private coaching before, you might have some (understandable) questions about what to expect, especially going into your first meeting with a dating coach.

Here is more information to help put your mind at ease, plus some tips for how to get the most out of your dating coaching consultation session with Ann.

Get to Know Ann your Dating Coach

Right after you schedule your first coaching consultation, you’ll get an appointment confirmation with a Zoom link to connect with Ann online, or in person if you’re meeting Ann at her office in Wellington.

During the first meeting with Ann, you’ll have the opportunity to learn more about her and ask questions about her training, experience, and qualifications to help you.

Ann wants to make sure you feel comfortable with her before moving forward, and your consultation session is the opportunity for you to make sure it feels like a good fit.

Ann wants to get to know you, too!

If you’re feeling comfortable with Ann, during your first meeting you’ll have the chance to tell them more about what’s been going on for you. Ann will likely ask a few questions to get clarity about what your goals are for your personal growth work around dating, and relationships. Ann will certainly want to know what you’d like to get out of the work, you can rest assured that they will not be asking you probing, personal questions about your history or other life experiences. If you decide, after the first meeting, that it feels like a good fit, then you can dig deeper in your first "official" session with Ann.

You’ll Discuss Your Goals

If you don’t already have specific goals for dating coaching, that is okay. Sometimes it takes a few meetings to get clarity about what you want (and an accurate understanding of what has not been working) in order to develop realistic goals. Your dating coach will be listening to understand what you hope to get out of dating coaching, and what your needs are, so that they can make sure they can be genuinely helpful to you.

You’ll Move Forward

If you feel comfortable with Ann, and what working with her would entail, then you can schedule your first official dating coaching session directly with them at a day, time and location that’s most convenient for you.

About Ann

Ann gained a Bachelor of Counselling and Human Change in 2010, followed by ICF certification to become a relationship coach.

In her former career, she was mental health nurse (RMN) and general health nurse (RGN) in the UK and has 16 years of experience, in which she worked in acute psychiatry, drug rehabilitation, accident emergency and community mental health.

Having spent many years "painfully single", Ann now has a huge passion for coaching people to move beyond whatever is getting in the way of love. Ann called in her soulmate-now-husband using many of the principles of Calling in "The One" "Katherine Woodward Thomas, author of Conscious Uncoupling 5 Steps to Live Happily Even After.

They have been happily together for 21 years and have two teenage children.

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